Donate & fundraise Other ways to give Give in memory Often people choose to make a donation to charity in memory of a loved one instead of buying flowers. Asking friends and family to donate at the funeral is a lasting and meaningful way to remember your loved one. There are two ways to donate in memory: Set up an online 'in memory' page using the 'set up a fundraising page' option. This will allow you to collect donations from a number of people in one place without having to handle the donations yourself. Give a single gift using the 'donate' button.